Undefined

    The New Reciprocity says we can be undefined to one another.  A New Reciprocity with someone may include definition of the subject from some undefined category into being shared ground.  Or reduction of social exchange into being undefined.  If that represents a reduction then, possibly, a new reciprocal command will solve it.  Being undefined to one another does not mean we share no reciprocity.  And since being undefined is one thing between us, we have reciprocity with each other.

    The importance of being undefined cannot be mistaken.

    The more undefined we are to one another, the more defined we become; for being defined means to have taken the undefined and put labor into it socially (social labor) which becomes more definable the longer it is undefined for the undefined and the defined are not supply and demand with one another.  The more undefined something is, the more it has the potential to be defined as the undefinable.

    To have a relationship between undefined and defined in which new reciprocity of the subject is transparent.

    We can be undefined to one another or we can try to build a social transaction of reciprocities starting under the category of 1.  For example, I can say we can find something under the category of 1 that is between us.  And since this is a reciprocal command itself, that itself can be what is reciprocal between us.  Or we can try to define one another.

    "You are a _______."

    "I think I might be ________."

    "Is ________ what turns you on?"

    "No. ___________"

    "I'm ___________."

    "________; I am definitely not a _________."

    "Identity is constructed socially.  I now think of you as __________."

    "And I think of you as ___________."

    "I'm okay with that."

    "Good.  We're square."

    "A square.  That is one whole thing.  I'll take it with me.  Square!"

    The New Reciprocity between the two people in the conversation above is partially undefined as an example.  The New Reciprocity is about being undefined to one another or adding parameters which influence our behavior toward one another.

Thoughtstream:

#Undefined

    I'm not an object.  I'm an object in a storm.  We are human.  But I want a New Reciprocity.  I want you to get me out of this storm.  I want to be human again.  Reciprocal.

    We are reciprocal.  That's what saves me.  That one thought.  And I try to grow there for there to be 1 thing between us.  That each one thing is one more thing.  That we are new reciprocal theorists of each other for this purpose of increasing our treasures be they physical or spiritual.  To roleplay.  To deepen our characters.